How to Overcome Inheritance Paralysis
A 90-day action plan to determine what to do with your inheritance—how to evaluate, save, invest it and more.
Disclaimer: The information provided is not intended as tax or legal advice and may not be relied on for purposes of avoiding any federal tax penalties. We encourage you to seek specific advice from your personal tax or legal counsel.
Losing a loved-one such as a parent can feel impossible. Not only emotionally, but also, although less so, logistically when considering the many financial to-dos.
We’re here to guide you through the financial logistics of inheriting money or assets. First, we'll help you identify what to tackle first, and which items can wait until after you've had some time to grieve and cope. Second, you'll learn how to navigate how an inheritance can affect your overall financial situation, including your net worth snapshot, cash flow, investments, debt, savings, taxes and your own estate plan. We'll help you understand how an inheritance will impact each of the ten themes of financial planning, what we recommend you do, and when.
We know it's hard. But, we can at least guide you through the logistics.
Over the years, we’ve had clients, and children of clients, come to us for advice regarding a recent inheritance. Many have been visibly overwhelmed and feel like a deer caught in headlights. Understandably so, as an inheritance can profoundly impact our personal finances and leave us with a deeply emotional responsibility to “do the right thing, at the right time” with the funds. We’ve found that prioritizing inheritance to-dos into digestible 30-day, 60-day and 90-day items can remove some of the stress and burden.
Assuming the estate has been settled and assets have been distributed, you may be looking at more investments than you’ve ever had, and perhaps more cash than you’re used to having. And, you may be wondering: What do I need to do first? Keep these positions? Sell these positions? Buy stocks? Buy mutual funds? Pay off my mortgage? Max out the kids’ college plans? Hire an advisor? Fire the advisor? Decrease my life insurance? Increase my life insurance? When should I reevaluate all of these decisions?
Phase 1, First 30 Days: Evaluate Everything, Buy and Sell (Nearly) Nothing
The first 30 days after you receive an inheritance should be about evaluating and understanding your full financial picture. During this time, we recommend not rushing into purchasing any big ticket items, or making substantial monetary commitments like paying down a mortgage, buying a house, maxing out kids’ college funds or major investments. If possible, consider leaving any inherited investment positions as they are (within reason, and please a professional to discuss this in detail if you have any questions) to allow yourself time to evaluate what you have.
Phase 2, Next 60 Days: Make The Plan
The next 60 days are about making a plan for your investments and overall finances, and taking small steps to implement it. At this point, you should know where your assets are, how much they are, and how much (more or less) is in each account. You should understand how accounts are titled (outright in your name, in IRAs, or in trust; these titles are typically listed on each statement and have different tax impacts when withdrawing cash from them) and what is accessible to you for spending or saving.
1. Snapshot and Budget: By now you have a sense of what you have and how much you spend. And, you may be asking yourself Where does the next dollar go? If you’ve inherited money, do you know where it should go (e.g., savings, retirement, college plans, paying down debt, emergency cash reserve)? We recommend tackling things in the following order:
2. Insurance: Consider changing how much life insurance you have. You may be able to decrease or eliminate it by self-insuring. This allows your assets to provide for your loved ones, instead of insurance, after you pass. We've also seen people increase their life insurance after an inheritance, believing more assets will be required to keep up with a new standard of living.
3. Investments: If you’ve inherited a portfolio of investments like stocks, bonds or mutual funds now is the time to take a deep dive into evaluating what you have.
4. Income Tax: If you have inherited a substantial amount of inheritance, it may impact your taxes. This is because your assets may put you into a higher income tax bracket. Consider chatting with a professional to understand this completely.
Phase 3, 90+ Days: Execute The Plan
The last phase of navigating your inheritance is finalizing and executing your plan, and developing a process to monitor your financial situation.
It is important to understand that nothing in this content should be considered personalized investment, financial, tax or legal advice.